You must be 18 & over to hold a membership with us. Whilst we don't ask for your ID to join us, we will check your ID against your application at the door of any event. Acceptable forms of photo ID are as standard, driving licence, recognised government ID, passport. If you are unsure if your ID will be accepted, please contact us in advance. If ID is not provided, you will not be able to attend and your ticket will not be refunded.

Our events are designed to be fun, social, relaxed and for conversation. You will not press members to talk on matters they do not wish to discuss and you will not pressure anyone, in any way, to give you their contact details, disclose their personal information, reveal their interests or meet you outside of the event. Members should be able to safely leave the event without non consenting contact outside of the venue or after hours. 

Consent is key. Always, and we do mean always, obtain consent for both your safety and the person you choose to explore with. For more intense kink, it is recommended to consent in written form of some kind, be that a text message or email. 

Strictly no photos are to be taken at our events. You may take photos outside of the venue, ensuring no other members are in the background as some members do not wish to be shown on social media. Do not tag anyone without prior permission. Privacy is important to us and important to our members. Whilst some people are open about their lifestyles, some like to keep things quiet. 

We try our best to have a handful of matches at the event for you, please understand this doesn't guarantee you a match. It also means there will be individuals with different views, kinks and dynamics at the mixers that are not suited to your interests. We expect all members to engage with others politely, respectfully and with an open mind. You are not obligated to talk to anyone and they are not obligated to talk to you, but always be polite in expressing your boundaries and preferences. If you are against any demographic, for any reason, our events are simply not for you. 

Conversation doesn't have to be strictly kink. The idea of the badges is that you can get to know other members in a way that suits you both, be that straight in at the deep end or having a general conversation and knowing you share the same interests for a conversation at a later date. Whilst you might be open and forward, understand that others may not. You will not ask someone to reveal their kinks, they are a person first and foremost, and that's what we're all about. If someone is pressing conversation that you are not comfortable with, we will be on hand to diffuse the situation subtly and comfortably for everyone. 

Members must follow the rules of the venue, ensure they do not encourage or partake in illegal activities and behave in a way that is expected of anyone that is in attendance of the venue, alongside our events. 

Safe sex is the best sex! We encourage members to discuss their preferred methods of safety before committing to any kind of activity after our events. If we can be open about our kinks, we can be open about our health! For any advice on safe practices, speak to one of our team. We will advise you or help you find the right services to suit your need. We believe it should not be seen as taboo to ask someone to have their sexual health checked before engaging in physical activities. Always check on the NHS website for guidance. 

Tickets are non-refundable to all of our events, they cannot be sold onto other members as you will have to be on the specific event guest list to join. If you have a like-minded friend that wishes to join, please get them to apply for membership and let us know they wish to attend with you in good time to be included in our match making process. 

Our events are not for play. We expect our members to keep these mixers as social and communication only, and dress appropriately. We are huge advocates of body positivity and any member to be found judging or shaming for any reason at all, will be removed. Members will respect one another's preferences, and respect those that do not fit in with theirs. 

Drink sensibly, plan your transport or sleeping arrangements and be aware of the legal limits for driving a vehicle. We encourage members to not drink at all before driving. 

Talk to us! We're always welcoming feedback, suggestions and encouragement. If we can do something better, please let us know!