Badges, Membership & Events
Specific information will be sent via email ahead of all events but here's an overview of the details
Badges
Every attendee will have one of our badges on display. This will show your Name/Alias given on your application, your relationship status (everyone at our events are seeking others, so we'd rather be open about your dynamic from the offset), your sexual orientation (some badges will simply say "Ask me").
Along with this information it will show an array of coloured dots. Each colour represents a group of matched or compatible kinks. The colours will change at every event and you are not obligated to disclose your kinks to anyone after your application. If someone matches one or more of your colours, you know you share a common interest... the rest is up to you!
Our events will be filled with people from all walks of life, all sexualities, shapes, sizes, identities and ages. Some people will be in relationships, single, poly or non monogamous and everything in between. The aim of the badges is a way to respectfully know who is around you and whether they are what you are looking for without revealing more than you would at a standard dating mixer. It means we can have a good range of people in one space, encouraging acceptance and learning, socialising and curiosity.
Membership
Membership is free!
We want as many people as possible on our database to ensure events with as many matches as we can find. The more people we have, the better the events, the more frequent and the more of the country we can cover.
Your information is safe with us and never shared. Some top tips for getting invited is to give as much information as possible in your application and to include ALL of your kinks, from vanilla to spicy! No interest is too small to match with someone, and we welcome all levels of interest from intimate romance, to bondage and beyond!
Keep us up to date with any changes from your initial application. We cannot promise you'll get an invite to an Event quickly but we're always expanding our database and as soon as we have a crowd for you, you'll get to come along.
We never judge, we never shame and we always support. As long as your kink is acceptably in the legal guidelines of this country and not harmful to non consenting parties, we're ready to hear about it. If you're self conscious, socially anxious, neurodiverse, body conscious or have any limitations that discourage you from getting to social events... we will do our absolute best to help you attend and enjoy our mixers.
Events
We work around the clock to match our members by their interests and preferred demographic. Once you fit the bill for a crowd at one of our events, we will email you with an exclusive invite to purchase a ticket.
Events are social mixers only, they are not for play or practicing kink. You can dress how you feel comfortable as long as it's in keeping with the dress code of the venue
Tickets must be purchased in advance to ensure that we invite people that are suited to others in attendance.
Our initial events will be as and when we can build a crowd to attend but we hope to have frequent mixers and grow our events quickly.
We aim to create events in central locations that are easy to access for all. We consider the area in which most of our applications are residing when looking for a venue and ask if people are willing to travel. Our aim is to roll out events up and down the country in the future.
Emails will contain all of the information you need to know before purchasing a ticket. Times, dates, access options, duration and location. If you do need to ask anything, we're only a message away!
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